Shades Of A 050
Big milestone today as we now have 50 pages of A! To celebrate, have this video
In other news the ALL THE THINGS T-SHIRTS are here and will be posted today! You can also come see me at Manchester Expo this weekend and get one there- or just come and say hi to my face (if the heat doesn’t kill you first).
“How does that even work?” <—The most common question I get about being poly right next to "But don't you get jealous?"
The one I usually get the most is “Do they know about each other?” (Well, given how many of my partners are dating other partners of mine, I’d certainly hope so!)
I used to get that a lot but now that the three of us are living together and only occasionally seeing other people, people usually assume we know about each other.
Okay, so one of them is Dean. Who’s the other one?
(And I’m really sorry if you don’t get this reference.)
Well clearly if one is Dean, the other would have to be Sam. I actually don’t do SPN at all, but you can’t go on the internet as a guy named Cas without hearing all about it x.x
A polyamorus friend of mine calls the partners dating other partners thing ‘partnerception’
I don’t get why people can’t wrap their heads around a polymorous relationship. Then again I dunno what monogamous relationships feel like either, so maybe that just makes everything plausible to me since I have to take everyone else’s word for it.
I’m kind of disappointed, I thought Kayden was a woman’s name, I don’t want to tell JD whom to sleep with but I imagined her in the middle of two lesbians, my mindporn will never happen in Comic-RL…though I really like the fact that Ellen and Kayden both look completely normal and almost boring but then they are open to hop in bed with a genderqueer hottie…that’s kind of my own experience with the couple of fetish-parties I went to, it’s always the people you’d least suspect to have a colorful sex life
But really: How does it work?! Everyone I’ve met in the last few years had no interest in casual sex but went full speed down relationship-lane…without even knowing me…I think that’s more creepy than people who just want to sleep with you.
Also I’m a huge coward, I don’t have the guts to look for sexpartners online. I don’t see a problem in managing a poly or open relationship, my problem is to find the right people!
JD is a they.
oh gosh! I was so focused on lesbians that I f*cked up the pronoun because, of course, I actually know they are a they ;)
I think it might be because cheating is so common and hurtful, so to them a many person relationship is just an excuse for cheating. Naturally, it ain’t true, but people can be a bit set in their ways and their thinking.
Awww. Anwar’s jealousy gave him amnesia. Love that he was arguing about Superman. :-D
Triple face palm! (me, Anwar and me after watching the video). What was in ‘War coke at the kink party? Also wondered in what time pocket they sat together, but then I checked, and it was even before the drink, so it was all the awkwardness and then meeting Chris that made him forget the couple. (Also, nice with the clear font in the first pages too).
Still not sure if JD is in a poly relationship or just a fling. For some reason, though, it seems 100 times cooler if they got to be in a LTR with the couple. On the other hand, they seem rushed into it. Hoping it won’t lead to heart break for them.
Hahaha. Anwar’s judgmental!face, proving that just because you fall outside of the sexual binary doesn’t mean you can’t judge the hell out of other deviants. XD
#conversations you should never have while drunk
for some reason the navigation buttons on the page don’t work for me.
Same, I believe it is due to Chrome, and I refuse to use anything else.
Agreed, it’s definitely an incompatibility with Chrome. And I’m not about to use firefox because it has a massive data leak.
ah, glad i’m not the only one. >_< i was about to ask and voila, it's chrome. mighta known.
The navigation buttons still work, sorta. It’s just in between the words instead of the words themselves.
Oh Anwar, you self-absorbed little git. You’ve earned a bit of a smackdown, here.
Anwar, how the hell did you forget?
Everyone I’ve ever met named Kayden or Kaiden has been a trans guy or genderqueer of some flavor. There’s been a number of them. Maybe it’s an American thing.