Butler and Boy ~ Reading between the lines ~ Page 9
Obviously please take panel 3 in it’s full context- I realise that can be read as weird and victim blame-y but we’re talking about reasons for erotic spanking here. Some people like to feel punished and ‘corrected’, others do not. And this my smutty lovelies, is why it’s worth talking about.
This weekend I’ll be at Glasgow MCM comic con- if you’re about please come say hi!
Butler! That’s how you get pink eye! Don’t put yer poop hand near yer face! EW. Anyways, glad we get to see when things don’t go perfectly. You always do a great job with the subtleties of relationships :)
Ahahaha oh my gawd I love how this comment thread has become filled with medical warnings
I was going to say… I thought that was one of the points in BDSM; some people like being punished, that’s why some subs are snarky to their Doms… again, it’s not for everyone, just one of those little faucets of the lifestyle? Wouldn’t this be something that would be discussed earlier? (someone who knows BDSM please correct me (not like that >.< ) and/or confirm? My knowledge of this extends to one book and a handful of conversations with a friend who used to be in the community).
*PS the book isn’t 50 Shades >.<
For many people, punishment is a huge part of BDSM. For others, it’s not. You’re right that communication before play is key… which I’m interpreting as being the huge problem in this case. It seems like the two more experienced players may have taken for granted somewhat that Boy understood their dynamic and their games, and thus the trio didn’t communicate their needs/wants/desires/limits/etc as much as was necessary. As a result… this.
Poor Boy!
I hope a good talk and cuddle sorts this