Sir, Butler and Boy ~ Sins of the Father ~ Page 18
Remember that warning about the word Daddy in this story? Yeaaaah
I understand why people dislike it but I associate it more with sugar daddies and the idea of spoiling someone. But then a lot of the reason people like certain words in bed (or on the stairs in this case) is because you’re NOT supposed to like it.
Of course, me being me, it has to be the boy who initiates that kind of roleplay because if John was the one who started it then it would feel creepy to me. Good thing James is such a sinnamon bum.
Personally, I dislike people saying it in a sexual context because my father sexually abused me starting at 3, as did his friends, and then at 14 a guy said it when he attempted to rape me, so I think on that note I’ll come back when this is over.
Agreed. Not a fan of uh this particular play for similar reasons. Not as young as you but the past year has been ruff.
I personally DO like using it sexually/lovingly.
I relate it to calling a partner “baby.” You’re not actually calling them a baby, you’re calling them someone that’s cute and precious. Calling someone “Daddy” means you’re calling them someone who takes care of you and spoils you and protects you.
It’s MUCH less about inc*st or r*pe and more about the dynamic in the relationship of “the protector” and “the sweet precious one” … That’s just how I view it!
I agree! I’m a femme and I’ve had subs call me daddy/mommy. When I’m the sub, I definitely sometimes call a dominant partner Daddy/Mommy if they choice that title when I ask what I can call them. I’m a really nurturing and sweet dominant so I feel it fits.
I kind have to take it as unliterally as possible or think about it too much. It’s roleplay to me! I just like making my partners feel comfortable.
I agree! I’m a femme and I’ve had subs call me daddy/mommy. When I’m the sub, I definitely sometimes call a dominant partner Daddy/Mommy if they choose that title when I ask what I can call them. I’m a really nurturing and sweet dominant so I feel it fits.
I kind have to take it as unliterally as possible or think about it too much. It’s roleplay to me! I just like making my partners feel comfortable.
Ahh I love James’ impish grin in the last panel! What a naughty boy!
I have no idea how to feel about it. I still and always have called my dad (and no one else) “Daddy.” Reading it is fine, but if someone started saying it to me out of the blue in a sexual context I think I’d panic lol.
Personally, I have quite an aversion to this sort of family word being used in sexual context.
However, this story and its characters are good enough that I can accept it as one of their inclinations and continue to enjoy the comic. c:
(to clarify, I’ve never had bad experiences associated with the word, so that probably makes it easier for me than for some other readers to keep reading this time)
I don’t have any problems with who initiates, since it’s just another dynamic people like, no different than someone wanting to be called Sir or Master. Very excited to see how these two play with this.
Ugh. No. Just no. I do love my father but I don’t want to think about him while having sex :/ Whatever floats your goat, but it doesn’t float mine.
If it helps, I don’t think most people who use it want to (or do) think of their father or even really a father figure (outside of D/lg).
I like that they’re discussing whether or not to move forward with that type of roleplay. James doesn’t just assume that John will like it, and I think that’s important.
I am totally fine with this. It’s adorable in this particular context, and I love watching them fall into another type of play with each other. Each testing the waters of what they like and finding out how it changes the dynamics. Yummy.
I have so many friends who are really (and I mean obsessively) into daddy kink. I’ve been called baby, I rather liked that, but was not about to call that particular person “daddy.” (Might have something to do with his name being the same as my father.) I finally had to ask bluntly WHAT was the turn-on with this, what is the thrill? A bold friend explained it nicely as a “daddy” is merely a dom who cares for you and spoils you. There’s zero incest or even familial connotation to the term… at least for her, I’m sure it’s different for others as the reasons for anything in kink is different for everyone. She said it’s simply a closer and more gentle title than, say, “master” or “sir.” The edge toward taboo is the same to her as the taboo of being a slave or pet; except she is a “baby girl” and her dom is a “daddy.” I still don’t think I’d use it, but that’s just my preference (lots of kink things I wouldn’t do). It’s cool with me if it’s something that “titillates” these two. I absolutely love that he’s the one pulling John into this taboo. Sins of the DADDY. ^_^